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Details.com: Edward is ruining relationships

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Details.com heads up to Forks and talks to fans visiting there about how Edward Cullen is ruining relationships worldwide in this new article.

The topic of Edward Cullen has, inevitably, touched off an endless and tumultuous dialogue on the Internet. He has become what Leonardo DiCaprio’s character in Titanic was in the late nineties: a gleaming ideal (of what women want a man to be) and a snarling rebuke (because so few dudes even come close). There are YouTube symposia for men such as “7 Lessons Guys Can Learn from Edward Cullen.” There are swoony yet self-lacerating posts along the lines of Natalie Cottrell’s “Why Edward Cullen is bad news,” in which the Texas blogger writes that “upon reflection, I’ve realized that all the same reasons I salivate every time his beautiful, pale mug comes on screen are the same reasons that I continue to be disappointed by guys.” An Australian scholar named Lisa Bode frets that Edward is draining the lifeblood from relationships in the nonfictional realm of dull, flabby mortals. Pointing to Facebook groups like “Twilight has ruined any chance I have at a realistic relationship,” she’s said women are “idealizing Edward to the point where real men can’t compete.”

Read the whole thing here.

Thanks Taylor!

  • lisabode
    Hi,
    I'm Lisa Bode, the scholar misquoted in that article. I just want to point out that I have never 'fretted' about Twilight ruining relationships. I've actually argued that plenty of women claim it's increased their sex drives and made their relationships *better*. As I pointed out to the journalist in the original interview, those facebook sites are actually facetious. I am fed up with hack journalists misusing my work to back up their own agendas. For the record, my research is on the cultural reception of Twilight, and the different kinds of 'chatter' around it and its fans. I don't normally go round commenting on every site (mis)quoting me, but this is just beyond stupid so I have to say *something*.
    thanks
    Lisa
    Lisa
  • aeclipse26
    I just keep falling for these book characters!! haha but no its never ruined a relationship! i just love that u cn get lost in a book! has anyone read Hush Hush! Patch is my new "edward!" at the moment!!! hahah! lol :D
  • muy liindo...lo amo
  • name101
    we love him yes but we know the difference between real life and fiction!!!
  • cowgirlbellydancer
    I have to remind my 13 year old that he is a fictional character. He is the culmination of the imagination of one woman. And that he is 100 years old hitting on a 16 year old girl. When I put it in that aspect, she got this look on her face. "EWWW!" Yeah. He is hot on paper and in the screen, but if you look at the true Edward, and you read between the lines... not so much.
  • sorry to say it, but if a fictional, fantasy character ruins your realtionship.....it must not have bee nmuch of a relationship to start with.
    jsut sayin'
  • hurriyah
    Exactly. Well said, Thank You.
  • tracy
    i would actually agree with this although it hasnt ruined my relationship as i realized that edward cullen is fiction. no one is perfect i suppose.
  • Claus
    That's absolutely crazy...nobody is perfect, neither Edward...If you want a lasting relationship, you have to accept your partner for who he is, and don't pretend he must me like an ideal man...I think all the women accusing Twilight of ruining their relationship have to go talking to some consuelor, because the problem is in their heads, not in the saga...
  • I think Rob is much more adorable than Edward , I don't even care if he's sloppy ,has dirty hair or smells bad, drinks,smokes or etc. Nothing makes me like him less ....
  • ladyashley81
    Okay I had a lady tell me yesterday at work that she thought about not marrying her husband because of the Twilight Saga - I was shocked! I mean they are books, and they are good, and Rob is beautiful but you have to have a little perspective.
    This coworker really thinks she has missed out on the adventure in life - and doubts her marriage. That is scary, but it certainly isn't Edward Cullen's fault. Some people are just a little out there.
  • emilyysuee
    sooo weirdd
  • Caroline
    Totally true, nobody is perfect. Even Edwards not perfect. 1. his skin always radiates a coldness 2. He's so damn protective I would choke 3. He doesn't really smile 4. He's always cautious and etc. It's not the fact that girls are dumping guys because they don't look good as E.C. (I mean some do) but it's the fact that guys are treating girls like crap nowadays and I guess that made some girls realized they were in a crappy relationship. Guys are constantly cheating, wanting in girls pants, and acting stupid...and so on. Maybe some girls actually want a mature relationship, want someone who actually loves them till the end of the earth and so on. Guys dont need to blame a fictional character. Yes there might be the girls that want someone hotter but its not always that. Some people actually feel like their in a bad relationship and just need something to make them realize it, and when that relization hits someone wants to blame someone or something....heck if you took time to look it up....the percentage in domestic violence rises every year and the numbers against woman are very depressing and sad.
  • KoriB
    Amen!
  • kellz09
    oh come on, if a guy was really in love with a girl as my boyfriend is he would enjoy the books and feel good that you know what a good guy Edward is, because you know how good of a guy you found. We watch the movies together just like anything else. He enjoys the romance out of it as much as I do. Presonaly i dont go for the character they picked with Rob for Edward, but then again that makes me not one of those girls that has some huge crush on Rob. So if a girl has such a huge crush on rob, should they really be with the person they are with, when they are thinking of someone else.....in other terms don't we call that mentaly cheating??!!
  • jbro1001
    Well it obviously is true for K-Stew in real live - lol! Just kidding! Seriously, if people are ridiculous enough to be so unrealistic, then they shall remain single forever! As much as I would love for it to be true, there is no Edward Cullen! Jacob (minus the werewolf part) is more realistic than Edward.
  • fanpire102
    o come on, i dont think the EC ruins relationships! he shows us wat love is really abt, how a woman shld be treated etc. of course men arent perfect (expt EC) but they can take some very good tips from him! my friends and i fight almost EVERYDAY abt how much we love EC and how much we want to b a Cullen, but at the end of it we knw tht life goes on.(truly, sometimes Fantasy can be better than reality)
  • Team_Edward_For_Life
    Oh come on I agree with the first comment.Nobody's perfect(except Edward :P)!But of course who WOULDNT want a man to be like Edward,Rob,Jacob,or Taylor??Be honest I mean people want men to be like fictional characters who cares!!.On the other hand Men want Women to be obdient which is never gonna happen.So come on people get over it its not a big secret that we want men like Edward and Jacob!!get over it people they are just FICTIONAL CHARACTERS!!!THEY AINT REAL BUT IT WOULDNT HURT TO DREAM!!
  • Mindy
    I think they underestimate the "Edward" fan. We know that it's all fantasy and not real. It's just nice to get lost in a fantasy world sometimes when you live in the real world too long. And no one could ever live up to Edward. Robert Patt isn't even him. Get a grip.
  • Marcela
    Men just need to stop blaming a FICTIONAL Character! they should start learning. and i admit i do fantasize of finding my edward lol but that does not mean i can't appreciate a guy . And reading the book made me realize a lot of good stuffs. like finding love its not easy but its totally worth it. :) .... So boys just grow up and treat a women right.
  • nessie09
    i am a big fan of the book s but i find it rediculos that any one would go as far as to say it or he ruined their relationship thats perthetic no man is perfect and if u expect them to be then thats ur own fault when it goes wrong and it was obiously not ment to be he is an actor so dont base ur life and relationship on one actor !!
  • Heather Renae Flores
    AMEN!!!!!!!!
  • I Love Twilight
    LOL that is very true!!

    i love the "AMEN!!!!!!!!" cmmnt! lol
  • carissajoy
    HAHAHAHA! I feel bad for guys with crazy girlfriends like that :/
  • KoriB
    Oh, come on, like men haven't had unrealistic ideas of what a woman should be for centuries.
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