Details.com: Edward is ruining relationships

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Details.com heads up to Forks and talks to fans visiting there about how Edward Cullen is ruining relationships worldwide in this new article.

The topic of Edward Cullen has, inevitably, touched off an endless and tumultuous dialogue on the Internet. He has become what Leonardo DiCaprio’s character in Titanic was in the late nineties: a gleaming ideal (of what women want a man to be) and a snarling rebuke (because so few dudes even come close). There are YouTube symposia for men such as “7 Lessons Guys Can Learn from Edward Cullen.” There are swoony yet self-lacerating posts along the lines of Natalie Cottrell’s “Why Edward Cullen is bad news,” in which the Texas blogger writes that “upon reflection, I’ve realized that all the same reasons I salivate every time his beautiful, pale mug comes on screen are the same reasons that I continue to be disappointed by guys.” An Australian scholar named Lisa Bode frets that Edward is draining the lifeblood from relationships in the nonfictional realm of dull, flabby mortals. Pointing to Facebook groups like “Twilight has ruined any chance I have at a realistic relationship,” she’s said women are “idealizing Edward to the point where real men can’t compete.”

Read the whole thing here.

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  • KoriB
    Oh, come on, like men haven't had unrealistic ideas of what a woman should be for centuries.
  • LinnyC
    so so true
  • Caroline
    Totally agree with you! Say it to the man!!!! :)
  • Team_Rosalie
    so true!
  • brekk
    yeah, you're right!!!
  • sorry to say it, but if a fictional, fantasy character ruins your realtionship.....it must not have bee nmuch of a relationship to start with.
    jsut sayin'
  • hurriyah
    Exactly. Well said, Thank You.
  • nessie09
    i am a big fan of the book s but i find it rediculos that any one would go as far as to say it or he ruined their relationship thats perthetic no man is perfect and if u expect them to be then thats ur own fault when it goes wrong and it was obiously not ment to be he is an actor so dont base ur life and relationship on one actor !!
  • Heather Renae Flores
    AMEN!!!!!!!!
  • I Love Twilight
    LOL that is very true!!

    i love the "AMEN!!!!!!!!" cmmnt! lol
  • lilgrneyz
    Oh, well. People should just get over it. Edward is the new "what a woman wants in a guy"...and it happens all the time...And if you were to take out the whole "vampire" and "immortal" factor, and make him a "real" person, people would still be swooning over him. It's the reason people make movies and write books in the first place.
  • Tonyanna
    These books and the relationship between bella and edward did help me realize how bad my relationship was...and basically I ended breaking up with my boyfriend of 4 years...I think that it really contributed for me to make this decision among other things and aspects of the relationship itself..but it got me to open my eyes...so I guess reading these books provided me with something positive.
  • midnightrose4ever221
    I realize that too but, still with my boyfriend and dream to find some day my Edward Cullen. But for now with my boyfriend because he is very sensitive and i dont want to hurt him. But definitely twilight saga bring me the oportunity to realize what Im looking for in a guy and the fact that my relationship is a mess.
  • When he isn't in costume and in character I don't know how anyone find him that attractive. It drives me insane that he runs his hands through his hair every thirty seconds. Just leave it alone...it looks bad enough already! Great Actor, Great Guy...just not THAT HOT!
  • elizabethshank
    I know i hate that he is a great guy but not that hot But edward OMGGGG i could talk 4 eva ohhhh myy goshhhh
  • spacetiger
    I soooo agree.. I think "Edward Cullen" is darn good looking guy, but Robert Pattinson.. not so much. WHAT IS WITH HIS HAIR?! He can't think that looks good lol, But hey, it also shows that the stardom that came with the Twilight saga has not changed him. Now weather that is good or not ... that's still undecided with me :)
  • valeria1234
    Girls are idiots.
    I'm a girl, so I would know. And we are definietly shallow...sometimes. I doo think of Edward Cullen a lot, and wish for a guy like him, but Ialso wish for a guy like Robert Pattinson. Same people yet, they're totally different!
    But anyways, I don't ahve a boyfriend, and I'm just crushing. This guy does somewhat remind me of Edward. Pale, amazing eyess... his personalityy rocks!
    but I agree with this. Girls are really expecting theEdward to walk up to them at school, and say "Hello, my name is .. blah blah!"
    Stop dreaming girrrls. No guy iss perfect, and thats what makes them, them.
    Unfortunately .. :(
  • Pheobe1012
    People always need some one to blame! its not edwards fault that you men aren't smart enough to actualy love a woman correctly! What is the world coming to when a guy has to bad mouth a fictional character cause they cant keep there girlfriend happy.I'm only 26 and i have been married for 6 years it just goes to show you that My husband knows what hes doing.Grow up boys Stop blaming Edward Cullen!
  • shdw
    As a 23 year old guy (with the same age and name as Robert). I have to say Twilight solidified my relationship with my fiance since I already was everything Edward was in the books. It was actually eerie reading them because for years before Twilight came out I was already telling my fiance that I loved her smell and could pick her out of a line-up blindfolded; as well as various other aspects of both Edwards physical character and his personality traits.
  • ndweaver1112
    I agree, The books and "Edward Cullen" only solidified my relationship; it pointed out all the reasons I was in love. Any woman who wants "Edward Cullen" is reaching for the impossible, only finding the faults in who they have or could have.
  • hurriyah
    Awwww thats so sweet. Well I hope you and your fiance have a wonderful life together and don't change.
  • jewel
    thats rediculous....
  • L.
    Um...women can be really lame. I know, because I am one. :-)

    I'd say my husband actually BENEFITS from my obsession with Twilight....if you KWIM. His name is Robert too. Hee hee hee.
  • Caroline
    lol :)
  • I Love Twilight
    lol thats funny
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